If you're taking your birth control sporadically, it's going to mess up your cycle. The pills work by regulating your hormones and they really are meant and have to be taken very rigidly. They aren't effective otherwise and they just serve to cause all kinds of hormonal imbalances.

If you are pregnant, don't worry too much about your grandparents. Everyone's parents say that as a ditch attempt to scare their kids/grandkids in to behaving certain ways. Yet, when pregnancies have happened everyone has been angry, hurt, but gotten over it and loved the child and accepted the boy as part of the family.

I'm sure you'll work it out.


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Holly.
Mama to Hunter Kai