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Would you ever date someone who cheated?
Replies: 20Last Post Sep. 10, 2012 9:56am by gucciva
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If you found out the girl or guy you were seeing and wanting to date had cheated on their last girlfriend or boyfriend, would you still date them?

2:32 pm on Sep. 9, 2012
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No.

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It would be silly to, because at the end of the day they can disrespect someone that much what makes you think you'll be any different. And 9 times out of 10 you won't change that person and you're starting a relationship based on mistrust. But this is just my opinion

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No.

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Nope.

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I have. The relationship ended pretty quickly, but not because of any cheating. I am not a person who believes that a cheater is always a cheater. Sometimes people just mess up once, and that doesn't need to be held against them for the rest of their life.

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idk, it depends.

i've always thought the whole "once a cheater always a cheater" mantra is stupid though.


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I would give them the benefit of the doubt, but if they cheat on me, they sure as hell wouldn't be sticking around. I definitely wouldn't like hearing that kind of news though.

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No, absolutely not.

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My ex cheated on me and i stayed with her afterwards... for a bit anyway, does that count?

and one of my friends girlfriend cheated on them and they are still together


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I have twice before. They both ended up cheating on me.

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Eh. I don't believe in once a cheater always a cheater, but I would be skeptical.

I would date someone who has been unfaithful in the past, but I don't think I'd get into a serious relationship with them.

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yeah, but i would definitely talk about it pretty extensively early on.

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Yes I'd still give it a chance.

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I would. I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt.

Before I even consider having a relationship with someone, I always ask them if they have ever been unfaithful and how they feel about the subject in general.

I respect a person more if they're open and honest about their indiscretion.

Post edited at 3:23 pm on Sep. 9, 2012 by Jubilance


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