last saturday, my bf went to spend the night at a friend's. okay. then sunday afternoon i call him to hang out like we always do and he said we could this weekend but didn't answer. okay, maybe he wasn't home yet. i called probably 5 times between noon and 9 p.m. and he never answered. i was freaking out. i thought maybe something horrible had happened. (here's my problem so pay attention) i thought the worse immediately like a car accident, a robbery, or anything worse (i even almost considered avoidance, or cheating, but then i remembered who i was talking about). i always think the worst and it was driving me insane with worry, reason completely left behind me. is that like an anxiety issue??? idk, maybe a control issue too??? my sister sort of had it after a traumatizing experience, but that makes sense, i never had anything like that. but we're a lot alike in many ways (personality and even body frame/type)
but then this weekend, i knew he was going to stay the night at a friend's and that we wouldn't hang out today and i was/am perfectly fine...is that like a control issue to you, i was fine cause i knew where he was?
idk how else to explain it....any ideas? anyone else like this???
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I think it is a control issue!! You wanted to know where he was and what is was doing. 
