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because deep, deep down, abusive drunk stepfathers are just like jesus

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lol win.
it's up to you. if the drinking's the only thing that bothers you, i don't think you should totally knock him back for that.

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Its just alcohol, accept him for the person he is, not the beverages he consumes..

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how is that not part of the person he is?

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 The act of consuming a beverage be it non-alcoholic or alcoholic is something we all do its a benign activity.  It is the way the person acts under the influence that gives you a true judge of ones character.

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well on what else do you think is okay to judge a person? jw

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I honestly, rarely judge people, and when I do it doesn't stop me from getting to know them.  

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I honestly, rarely judge people, and when I do it doesn't stop me from getting to know them.  

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I honestly, rarely judge people, and when I do it doesn't stop me from getting to know them.  

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so you'd either date anybody or nobody, basically?

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I have preferences...

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Quote: from i r sekz at 12:11 am on June 5, 2008

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I honestly, rarely judge people, and when I do it doesn't stop me from getting to know them.  

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so you'd either date anybody or nobody, basically?

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I have preferences...

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Quote: from i r sekz at 11:52 pm on June 4, 2008

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Its just alcohol, accept him for the person he is, not the beverages he consumes..

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how is that not part of the person he is?

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The act of consuming a beverage be it non-alcoholic or alcoholic is something we all do its a benign activity.  It is the way the person acts under the influence that gives you a true judge of ones character.

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In essence, so is everything else.  Drinking gives a valid insight into someone's character.  If you don't like people that like to fuck up their perception for the sake of a good time, it's making a judge of someone's character based on what you like and don't like.  To think that is invalid is seriously flawed.

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Quote: from i r sekz at 11:52 pm on June 4, 2008

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Its just alcohol, accept him for the person he is, not the beverages he consumes..

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how is that not part of the person he is?

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 The act of consuming a beverage be it non-alcoholic or alcoholic is something we all do its a benign activity.  It is the way the person acts under the influence that gives you a true judge of ones character.

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In essence, so is everything else.  Drinking gives a valid insight into someone's character.  If you don't like people that like to fuck up their perception for the sake of a good time, it's making a judge of someone's character based on what you like and don't like.  To think that is invalid is seriously flawed.

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Hardly.  So if I have a beer after work I am "fucking up my perception for the sake of having a good time?"  

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Quote: from hithere at 3:15 am on June 5, 2008

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Quote: from i r sekz at 12:11 am on June 5, 2008

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I honestly, rarely judge people, and when I do it doesn't stop me from getting to know them.  

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so you'd either date anybody or nobody, basically?

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 I have preferences...

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and they're all valid preferences? somehow more valid than whether or not somebody drinks a certain thing?

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More along the lines of I like blondes but I'll date a brunette...

Post edited at 10:02 am on June 5, 2008 by i r sekz

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You should probably get to know him and discover the good things about his personality before you judge him by something most people do.

It'll be hard for you to find a non-drinking male in life, anyway. There simply aren't many of them.

Just don't be so judgmental, k?

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