How do I tell her I still care? -- LiveWire Teen Forums

Sorry to repost this. But I briefly forgot 99% all you ever get in other fourms is spam and troll feeding,
and juding by some of the problems other people have on this site, my problem hardly warrants Ehelp. But a thought out answer might be nice =)

A mod can delete it on the relationship forum, thankyou. You cant delete your own topics on LW can you? You can on other forums, but i cant work out to here, if you can?

Here goes:

Its a bit long, but go on, do you honestly have something better to do? :D

Ok. A while ago I told one of my close girl friends I liked her. I poured my heart out a bit. She was very nice about it all, but didn't feel the same way. She made a big effort to make sure it was all cool, as she knew I felt embarrassed and a bit upset by it. Since then we've just not spoken about it at all since, if anything id say we became closer. She tells me things she doesn't anyone else and to be honest id say I love her as a friend, she means the world to me.

I dont think shes ever had a boyfriend, shes had offers, but never said yes. Shes a bit shy i spose. But she isnt really, because if I didnt know her id say she was flirty, because she seems to be, and especically with me sometimes, but it isnt flirting, its just her being her normal friendly self.

I do flirt with her, but i doubt she notices, shell just think im being friendly because shes like that lol

Shes been acting stragely lately though
Been talking to me about personal things more than normal, her family problems and stuff

She has a problem with people meeting her family- shes made me randomly talk to her mum and sister online

she was reading out of a horrorscope book to me, when it got to the bit about mine and hers love compatabiliy she went red and skipped that bit with a smile
lol

had a really strange conversation with her about her wanting to go do something because she was bored, wishing she had friends that lived closer (I live a fair way away) and she was trying to get our mutal friend to go to the park with her (She has a thing about parks, her fav place), there was a very overt I wish you lived closer thing happeng in that convo I could tell..

Generally being more friendly with me, Im not the only one whose noticed it.

To complicate things, theres this other girl who flirts with me loads, girl 1 know i used to like her, I dont anymore, but i flirt back becasue if i dont she goes all weird with me, but i dont like her like that anymore, but im pretty sure everone notices we flirt alot, including the girl i do actually like

when ever that happens, I always try and brake away from her and go talk to or sit with the girl i do like, hoping theyll both cotton on a bit to what im doing..

Im trying to find a way of telling her/showing her I still like her without being so blunt about it, any ideas?

because im rather out of them :?

I tell her she looks pretty and compliment her lots, but im certain she doesnt interpret it as flirting :S

Im struggling with it now, because I like her so much, and baddly want to tell her what she means to me, but as ive told her how ive felt before, (i told her about half year ago now) i think it ull seem stupid, like im repeating myself. but I cant stand it when shes upset or whatever now, all I want to do is hug her and be there for her, let her know shes cared about.
but I cant cross the friend line

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