i find that i dont really want to tell some girls im taken..

I would never cheat on chelsea, i would break up with her before it came to that..

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You obviously don't like her too terribly much.

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I second this

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You obviously don't like her too terribly much.

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i dont see her an awful lot, and we fight most of the time.

we make up every time, but...

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if u broke up with a chik for another one thats just low

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i agree with that,

but shit happens

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Eh, if you're thinking about eye-raping them, you must not be very attracted to your girlfriend.

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no, i mean like keeping the chance open, and not ending all chances by telling im taken..

Why would you even keep your eyes open for other girls?  This shows that either you're not sure about the relationship or you're wanting more than one.  Either way, I think you could evaluate what you have.

Is it worth jeopardizing?  And I say this because we both know guys make a ton of mistakes. And having your thoughts might lead to action. You say it wont. But we cant be sure of that.

Stay fully committed to your girlfriend. Know what you got and keep it. If you were fully committed to your girlfriend, you wouldn't hesitate to say you have the best girlfriend in the world. And you would say this to these girls.

Ultimately, you will decide what to do. But if it gets more serious then reconsider the relationship. No one wants to get hurt.

Post edited at 6:05 am on Aug. 29, 2008 by jamesish

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Quote: from marshmellowman at 8:45 am on Aug. 29, 2008

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Eh, if you're thinking about eye-raping them, you must not be very attracted to your girlfriend.

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no, i mean like keeping the chance open, and not ending all chances by telling im taken..

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If you like your girlfriend and you're committed to her there's no reason why you'd be looking for other girls to date in the future. if you want to, it's a sign that there are problems with your relationship and the two of you should probably talk. If you don't feel wholly committed to her then maybe this relationship isn't the best idea if you just fight.

I'm not saying that you have to prevent friendships with girls, but if you're specifically scouting for future girlfriends it seems kinda sleazy and unfair on your current girlfriend.

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You obviously don't like her too terribly much.

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He could just be looking for "the one". They might not be right for eachother, so he could be keeping an eye out.

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