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i have a nice boyfriend hes sweet and treats me great and doesn't push for sex and we have been together a month hell he hasn't even tried to finger me. But what drives me crazy i just don't understand I'm just not into him like hes cute and smart and funny and even helps me with my homework and i just cant seem to get myself to fall for him or even like him that much  Hes clingy and i spend about 4 days a week with him and about 6 or 7 hours out of those days it seems like Lot to me. Anyways i did a really mean thing today he was supposed to pick me up from my friends and i just for some reason i just didn't want to see him. i know this is going to sound crazy a bit but hes everything i ever wanted in a guy except i don't want him!! Like i didn't even have to try and hes whipped i don't want it to seem like I'm using him sense i don't like him that much.
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Lady Cyanide
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do you not like him because he won't get sexual with you or did you just mention that to prove your point about him being a "nice guy??" 'cause if it's the first one, then you should know that it's okay to hint at/blatantly admit to wanting some pleasure. xP
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x508xmayzx
Advisor
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yeah i agree. maybe you think hes everything you like?
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cassey
Wealthy Hobo
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sometime you find that the things you want the most are when you don't have them
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Who Better Than This?
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starrynight401
Connoisseur
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Maybe you need to help him be slightly more demanding in a relationship aka voice his opinion as well.
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she rockz
Visionary
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you're lucky you have a bf like him. If I were to have a bf like that, I'd treasure that. I don't know why you don't want him in the first place, what's that thing you don't like about him? If you don't have feelings, then I guess make a very good decision to break up with him as long as you'll never regret it in the future if ever you meet someone who isn't that nice or as good as him. I hope you won't get crawling back to him again. Just a friendly reminder.
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Fate? Or something better? I could care less, just stay with me a while.
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yourbrainonsaget
Soothsayer
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Maybe you should talk to him about it...not trying to change him, but point out that to not be afraid to be more assertive
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All on top was a bucket and a mop, and an illustrated book about birds
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Raiku
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cool story, shallow bitch
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Love is for losers.
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9:06 pm on July 19, 2008 | Joined Aug. 2004 | 520 Days Active
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i have a nice boyfriend hes sweet and treats me great and doesn't push for sex and we have been together a month hell he hasn't even tried to finger me. But what drives me crazy i just don't understand I'm just not into him like hes cute and smart and funny and even helps me with my homework and i just cant seem to get myself to fall for him or even like him that much 
