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Sex without a condom
Replies: 29 — Last Post July 21 5:40pm by TigressaLynnMae
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Quote: from rawrr at 2:11 pm on July 21, 2008
if you dont want to, then dont do it. simple as that.

Obviously, if I'm planning on possibly doing it, I want to.

But things that you want aren't always the best things for you.

11:15 am on July 21, 2008
swtpie

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You can never be to paranoid.

As a couple, you need to come to a decision. If he doesn't like wearing a condom, then the spermicial film is a good way to go. Either way, no matter what you do, there will always be a chance of pregnancy.

With my boyfriend, I actually asked if we could stop using a condom cause it hurt me. We now go unprotective, without bc or anything. But we'd be happy with a baby.

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tennisplayerV2


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i'm with rawrr

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Rebecca1422


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the pill is safer than condoms as long as its taken correctly x
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Quote: from rawrr at 3:11 am on July 22, 2008
if you dont want to, then dont do it. simple as that.

Exactly. If you want him to wear a condom and he doesn't, then don't have sex with him. There's more at risk than just pregnancy, especially since he's had other sexual partners.

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ohemgeeitsme424


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the point of the pill is to prevent you getting pregnant... the point of condoms is to do that... but also to prevent STD's. think about it.

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redsbaseball


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wut?

Post edited at 10:58 am on Aug. 29, 2008 by redsbaseball

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John87

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Sex is way better without condom. It gives much better sensation to both partners. However, if you dont want to dont do it!



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lonewolf03


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I'm on the pill, and my boyfriend always pulls out. It works for us. Sex without condoms does feel much nicer, but it's up to you, you're the one who's body could be affected most.

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HazelEyedAngel


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The pill is 99% effective at preventing pregnancy if it is used 100% correctly. Spermicide gel is 71% effective if used alone. Condoms are 97% effective when used alone. Combining a pill and a condom ups the prevention to 99.7% effectiveness when both are used absolutely correctly.

Just some facts to consider.

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jayney16


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sex without a condom feels a lot better but there is a higher chance of getting pregnant. but being on the pill helps

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sile


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If you don't want to have sex without a condom then don't your boyfriend is a dick if he complains about it because it's you that would end of worried about getting pregnant all the time just so he can feel a bit more.
When im on the pill i still wont have sex without a condom, firstly because im uber paranoid about getting pregnant and want to be completely safe like you are, lots of thing can interfere with the pill, like other medications, or just forgetting to take it one day. And besides that the pill doesn't protect against S.T.I.'s and while im sure you completely trust your boyfriend so do the majority of people who end up getting infections.
Basically in my view better safe than sorry and if a guy has a problem with that he can GTFO

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branflakes



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you're way too paranoid

do you realize that perfect, directed use of the pill results in pregnancy 0.3% of the time over the course of a YEAR. that means that if a THOUSAND people take the pill over a year and have sex, there are going to be 3 pregnancies. now, i know you may be saying "but i could be one of those three!" yeah, you could but no matter what you do there's always gonna be that "what if," no matter how small. personally, i think 3 out of 1,000 is a pretty fucking small possibility.

there's reason and then there's paranoia and i think what you're displaying is paranoia. do you want to live your life in fear that you'll have the worst come to you or do you want to stick to your pretty good chances and enjoy yourself more?

it's up to you.

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freddie


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well from a guys point of veiw
i see where you are getting at that you wanna stay safe and hey i dont blame you but if you trust him enough then go for it i mean i hve had sex without a condom befor and all i really did was just pull out b4 i was about 2 cuum and then we were all good so if you feel safe and you trust him go for it=]=]
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TigressaLynnMae


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Branflakes: It's not paranoia. It's plausible precaution.

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