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Another "Is it cheating if.."
Replies: 17Last Post July 21 3:18am by nik1
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So my boyfriend who i hold quite dear to me has another girlfriend he's been trying to break it off with. I only know this through his friends. And a few days ago i heard that they'd broke up. Then today, my friend calls me and tells me that our other friend had gotten really drunk with my bf, and that my bf had sex with the girl on his couch. But my friend doesnt seem to think its a big deal, because he was "really drunk" [even though..from my experience, he doesn't drink that much..] and..i don't know. It hurts immensely and i wish i could just tell him what i know. He called me yesterday saying "Were about to get in a fight with these dudes, and if i die, i just want you to know that i fuckin love you."
And i called him last night saying i miss him..he hasnt called me back..
And i just thought shit was going to get better..
I feel like such a fuck up. My god im stupid.
Its all so immature.

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what a soap opera that is.

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Find a better guy hun.

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Cheating is cheating
There's no in-between on grey area

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you deserve way better, he cheated on you...
and its horrible that he did that
and he has another gf? and u didnt think anything of it
im sorry but yeah find a better guy

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Quote: from Taylor636Baker at 4:36 pm on July 20, 2008

Cheating is cheating
There's no in-between on grey area

^exactly

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Dump him, if he can't stay committed to you then he isn't worth it.

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It's cheating if you even have to ask this question at all.
Period.

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curse him out girl. tell him what you know. you can choose to hear what he has to say and stay with him, but you still have to assert yourself.

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Honestly, You can do better for your self. I have put up with someone who was unwilling to be faithful to me. I wasted a year and a half with her. I can honestly say, if you have the chance don't waste your time. You are still young, try not to fall hard for someone like that you you could possibly fall into a habit of going after guys like that, and it will constently drag you down. Good luck, I know how bad this can hurt.

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Quote: from Taylor636Baker at 1:36 pm on July 20, 2008

Cheating is cheating
There's no in-between on grey area

Exactly.

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Thanks guys..:|
Im glad someone cares.

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It's just sex, you'll get over it.

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Quote: from SparklingFlower at 1:37 pm on July 20, 2008

It's cheating if you even have to ask this question at all.  
Period.

I don't recommend listening to cliche bullshit like this.

That said, talk to your boyfriend, don't let someone else tell you if he was drunk or if it's a big deal or not or if it's cheating, that's up to you.

Your boyfriend sounds like a faggot, I never tell a girl that I'm getting in a fucking fight or that I've been in a fight, why the fuck would I? That alone makes me dislike him, I hate fags who call their girls to impress them with idiotic fucking lines like that, and I think you should break up with him just for the fact that he's stupid and this will almost certainly happen again. How the hell is he in a serious situation if he has time to call you, that shit is gay.

It's on you though.

Post edited at 1:45 pm on July 20, 2008 by medjai

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Quote: from Taylor636Baker at 5:36 pm on July 20, 2008

Cheating is cheating
There's no in-between on grey area

agreed

dump that cheating douche bag... hes a good for nothing loser.

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