I was dating my friend for a little bit and she ended it but said, and I agreed, that she wanted things to go back to normal... they haven't.  She says that she can't spend time with me or this other friend because she has too much work in summer school, it is a lot of work I will give her that.

Well she has known this girl forever, they are family friends, and this girl is from the east coast, we're from LA, and they won't see each other for a while because this girl is going to Europe for school.  I'm becoming better friends with this girl because my now ex is spending less and less, almost no, time with her.  Both of us think there is something wrong with my ex but she won't tell us, when we ask she says that it is just homework.

This friend told me that she most likely won't be friends with my ex, who she has been almost best friends with for so long, after she leaves because she has been such a bitch to her.  What should I do?  I can't let this happen.  I know that it isn't my duty to help them but I know that it is the right thing to do.

I know this isn't right and they should be friends it's just all weird.  I need a way or something to bring them back together because this is all wrong.  This girl broke up with me and just said she didn't like me the same way but myself, her friend and my mother, yes my mom, said that they wouldn't be surprised if we were back together soon, as soon as September.  I'm not worried about that anymore I'm much more worried about this.  She is driving her closest friends away for some reason and starting to hang out more with other people.  She isn't starting to do drugs, or anything like that, and she isn't really changing at all... any ideas?

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she hasn't gotten over you?..dunno

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that's still up for debate, we'll see.  i've caught her a few times staring at me and looking away just as i saw so good sign but im not worried about that now

you two can't help it if thats what she chooses to do.

Post edited at 1:29 pm on July 20, 2008 by xicheeto