But we were on the phone one day talking about something...and it was just on my mind. I asked him why I couldnt meet them and he said because their HIGHLY racist. I was a bit confused because im not black or anything...so i didnt really know what to think. But hes Irish and im italian. I didnt think irish people would be racist against italians but he explained to me that his parents dont like anyone outside of their race. So I asked him did they know that him and  I were seeing eachother and he said yes but he told them I was irish!

In soo pissed right now! Hes saying I shouldnt be so mad but I am. Am I wrong?

Should I stop seeing him to avoid any conflict?

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I suppose keep dating as long as his parents aren't a problem.

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Educators destroy your brain,
but you don't know, so why care?
Fagotto

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You should be mad at his parents, not him. He has no control over his parents' opinions.

I suppose keep dating as long as his parents aren't a problem.

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I agree. While he did betray you in a way, he was in  a really difficult positon between you and his parents who, racist or not, he loves. Your relationship is not yet to the point where you can expect him to stand up and "take a bullet" for you from his parents. At some point he shoudl be expected to stand up and say, "Mom and Dad, HollisterStar is my girl friend and I expect you to treat her well."

But 3 weeks is not that point.

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A Parent, old geezer, and occasionally right. Good judgment comes from bad
experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.

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I was a bit confused because im not black or anything...

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Lol. If you were black, it'd make more sense, right?

LOL, maybe you should think about not meeting his parents right now.

the way I see it is your bf is not ready to face his parents about the truth if he lied to them. so its a recipe for a big mess all around. hes gonna feel scared about facing his parents. hes gonna feel ashamed of you or him or his parents. hes pussying around the whole issue instead of standing up for you.

so yeah maybe you should kinda cool it with him until he makes up his mind who he really cares more about:

you and how you guys feel for eachother

or

what his racist parents think

i mean its hard enough when the parents are racist but if they so messd up they make a difference between irish and italian and if your bf is too much of a pussy to say "hey i  lover her so fuck off" then its not starting good.

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"Everyone helpin' each other whenever they can we makin' it happen, from nothin' to somethin'
That's how we be survivin'" - BEP

i thought that whole irish italian feud died out in the 60s

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I have been around a lot of Italians and they tend to be more condescending to other races of people than others.

Must be an Italian disorder???