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trying to hate him.
Replies: 10Last Post Aug. 21 2:42pm by lilakforte
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my boyfriend is a really good guy, and i really love him. i trust him, i know he would never hurt me, and i know he loves me. and i love him.

but there's always a voice in the back of my mind that says he really hates me, and doesn't tell me because he feels bad.

and this in turn makes me try to dislike him, or find reasons to hate him and be mad, because that's what i think he's feeling.

it's becoming a real problem lately, but i don't know how to control this and stop.

if you could offer real advice, thanks!


2:31 pm on Aug. 21, 2008
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are you ok . . .??  like in the head?

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ignore the voice

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if you think your boyfriend hates you, talk to him about it

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Why do you think that voice might even be there? Is it something with his actions? What he says sometimes? Or is it unfounded and simply might be your insecurity?

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Well i would advise you to seek therapy. Usually thinking something like that means you're insecure. & if you're going to be insecure in a relationship you shouldn't be in one.

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i'm trying to hate my ex. part of me is still in love with her, which makes things awkward. but, you're just kinda fucked up.

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therapist

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If you really have these doubts, maybe you should reconsider staying with him. i dont see why you have them though. why do you think he hates you? is it just your doubts? talk to your boyfriend about them
figure out why they're there
you honestly could have these feelings over nothing

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you has a broken brain

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Wow you have some very warped thoughts. If you find you are generally depressed and anxious anyway I'd look here: http://www.moodgym.anu.edu.au/ and start talking to a consellor. I mean basically that is so warped it's crazy, if he asked you out, he kisses you and he calls you up and texts you then why would such an irrattional thought such as 'he hates me' appear? it's faulty reasoning and I think this is beyond what we can help you with, you need to change how you think about things for the sake of you and your boyfriend before you mess up this otherwise healthy relationship. Good luck.

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