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Replies: 11Last Post Aug. 21 2:34pm by nik1
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Hey, I like this girl and have for a little while. She knows that i like her just not how much. The problem is that she is extremely focused on school and theater. I don't think she would go for me, and i dont think im good enough.

Any of you ever been in the same spot as me? What did you guys do?

Let me know if you want to/need to know more.


2:24 pm on Aug. 21, 2008
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No, a girl focused on school wouldn't really appeal to me.

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go for it or you'll never know.

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Ask her out on a date.  Wear this to the date.  

Post edited at 2:26 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 by MrJollyRancher

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I was in this same spot two weeks ago. dude, she totally doesn't mind a little extra. go for it. you could win epicly.

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cherrys77


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Don't change yourself for someone else.
Present yourself to her as you are. And if she doesn't take it then it's her loss.

Post edited at 2:26 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 by cherrys77

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Aliboo


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Explore her interests a little. Get to know her and be a good friend, think about taking the next step. you could just ask her. she could say yes

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Then go for her if you don't think she'd go for you. Girls like it when they can see your coming after them and you're not lazy enough to wish we'd come to you first. Esepcially when you have plucked up so much courage to ask us. Even if she's focused on school and theatre she may still want to enter a relationship with you, and if not now then later on so hec just go for it.

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wear this to the date*

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Have a little more self confidence first, or else even if she does go for you, you'll still probably end up insecure in the relationship. Focus on your strengths and the reasons she might go for you, rather than the reasons she might not.

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wow that kinda sounds like me, there's this guy who I know likes me but I'm like busy with my drama club and stuffLOL

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She probably feels exactly the same way about you and I suggest that you forget her being better than you.  I will give you a little tip....I never though my gf of three+ years would have anything to do with me.  There are thousands of guys to choose from at the university and I am the one that she fell in love with...lucky me and lucky her because no one would honor her as much as I do.

Use your brain to make her believe that she can't do without you.  Take it one little step at a time.  Don't treat her like the other guys do.  Treat her uniquely your way which should be with respect.  Make her feel she is important by focusing your energy on making her feel special around you.  How do you do this?  Well, you always use her name because people like to think that someone thinks enough of them to remember their name.  It's like a stamp of approval every time you use it.  Ask her questions about things that interest her.  Ask her about drama, what she does, how she does it, how does she learn about and if you can watch her some time.  After you watch remember little things that she did and brag on her.  Go to plays and read about the plays before you go so you will have questions to ask her and talk about when you are with her.  Make sure when you are with her that she is made to feel special.  Make sure she has fun when she's with you and never make a sexual move or comment around her.  Respect her.

Good luck!


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