The problem? He has a girlfriend that he also loves. He doesn't seem to share much of himself with her, nor do they have lots to talk about. But he also talks a lot about how he wants to marry her and stuff.

I don't want to be around him. It makes everything so complicated. How can he love me, share everything with me, and yet... be in love with a girl who doesn't even know him?

When I wanted to leave, he threatened to kill himself. Am I stuck?

Feel free to PM if you need to talk :)

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.:.Faut souffrir pour etre belle.:.
♥ hey there, delilah, what's it like in new york city?

You need to be responsible for YOUR life, and YOUR happiness.  You can't live your life for others... and while this may sound harsh, just because he threatens to commit suicide does not mean you're forced to stay.

I say it this way... if he can't be committed to one person, then there's no need to be committed to either.  He could give himself a break and decide what he truly wants.  And while I do think that someone could love two people, I do feel that they ultimately have to come to a decision.  I would NOT stay as an inbetween while he makes up his mind.  Rather, I would wait, and if in the future, he has realized what he wants, and I would still be interested, then I would take up the offer.  But otherwise, I think it's time for you to move on.

So I know it's scary, but is this how you want to live your life?  We're all responsible for our own lives, and HE has to realize that he can't play around with someone else's life just because of his own faults.

(especially if you're a vampire)

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"Because I can."

And yet, he doesn't  love me like that. He broke up with her briefly to be with me. And everything was perfect... and then we got into one big fight, and he went back to her. Told me that he was confused, that's all.

There is just so much pain being around him, and yet... he still needs me to be everything for him. I get the raincloud, and she gets the sunshine.

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The word 'love' is so over used these days.

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QFT

I think he's trying to hold onto both of you because he's insecure and he has issues. In fact I think he may be talking about marrying this girl just to see how it hurts you so that he feels better knowing that you care enough about him so that he has the control to upset you. This guy sounds like bad news, obviously I can't tell you to simply ditch the guy and move on but just be extra weary of him and try to loosen his grip on you before he drags you through mud alright?