Mine was with the most popular boy in school. It wasn't because I was in love, or because I thought we'd be together forever. I did it because I wanted to see what it was like. Now I have an understanding of the specialness and etc...I wish I would have done it differently but anyway... The suckiest part HOWEVER was, at that time my best friend had already been with 4 guys, I was getting advice and tips from her. 1st yr in high school we were. I did it, told her all about it, and one day when me and the guy were hanging out, I figured she my best friend, OK to introduce...
From then they had a secret affair. When I found out I wanted to remain friends, figured hes a dirty guy w/e, but she was a ***** about it. Called me a few months later, wanted me to come over, to make up. Turns out it was an ambush. He was there using what I told her b4 they were together against me. She and I started arguing, she pulled a knife. I whooped her ***...
now maybe 6-7yrs later. she finds me on myspace! don't ask me how, I was sure I made my self very hard to find...
writes me a letter apologizing for her treachery...says he wasn't worth it, its her fault, i was the best friend she ever had, she regrets it...gives me her number wants to start anew
mind you on her page she has a blog proffessing her love to "SED" guy ( Albeit 2yrs b4 she wrote me this letter, I checked the date)... along with other nostalgia...how should I respond to her? I dont wanna be her friend again, but is it ok if I give her a piece of my mind?
let her know that the memories of my first time are forever tainted because of her? maybe just ignore her?