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Replies: 7 — Last Post July 20 12:36am by Relativity

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( gief )

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so, my ex girl friend called me yesterday (i haven't slept) to tell me to about how she is upset that i sent her flowers for her birthday last week, and that i texted her the day before that. I'm still in love with her, and i was very bad to her toward the end of our relationship, and she wants nothing to do with me. she then proceeded to tell me that she slept with an older man from her office. i don't know if it was spite, or because she wants someone to care, or a mix of both. i just don't get it. i realize that i shouldn't try and contact her if she doesn't want me to. and admittedly some times i walk past her house late at night after work and sit under her window and think for a while. maybe I'm a creeper, maybe I'm crazy, and definitely lonely. the whole thing is so fucked up, my whole summer has been one more disappointment after the other. bad planing and bad decision making on my part, coupled with desperation to pay the bills, and being screwed over by employers and misfortune. how do i solve my problems, get out of debts to everyone i know, find someone who is really good for me, or just make a post that has a point, i don't know.

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hey there sweet thang, hows about i buy you a fish sandwich.

4:38 am on July 6, 2008 | Joined April 2005 | 429 Days Active
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worst post ever

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hey there sweet thang, hows about i buy you a fish sandwich.

4:46 am on July 6, 2008 | Joined April 2005 | 429 Days Active
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Hoop Jargon

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Aids!!11

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( gief )

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Quote: from Hoop Jargon at 7:48 am on July 6, 2008

Aids!!11

what?

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hey there sweet thang, hows about i buy you a fish sandwich.

4:50 am on July 6, 2008 | Joined April 2005 | 429 Days Active
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nik1

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You are half way there to recovery. Admitting fault and recognizing where you have screwed up is a big step. However fixing your problem requires a lot of discipline. I would suggest that you quieten your life down to a crawl and start over.

Obviously your ex is no longer into you. No matter what you do you can't make her love you. All you can do is cross your fingers and wish but don't spend a lot of time on this.

Here's a few keys to solving your problem. Find an adult you trust and can talk to, go to school and get an education, get a job and stay busy. Get involved in activities with others your age but exclude drugs and drinking. Do some volunteer work to get your brain back in proper perspective. There are no free lunches but if you stay on track you will be fine and in the process may gain the respect of your ex.....or, find someone else!

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JackieisBlue

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I think the key here would be to move on. Concentrate more on your own problems before being involved with someone else.

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Cause I'm in too deep, and I'm trying to keep,
Up above in my head, instead of going under.

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RainBowBow

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just get over the old one and go down to the bar get a new one

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Relativity

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shit gets better later on in life.

i'm not sure what to tell you. there's nothing i could say to make you feel better.

you're still in love. falling out of it can take up to three years.
you're in debt. paying off debt cant take up to twenty years.

the only thing left to do is suck it up and take a step forward.
move and try to change things. forget about the past.

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Bunch of savages in this town.

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