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Would you break up w/ someone who wouldn't have sex with you?
Replies: 37Last Post July 23 11:09am by RAZZLETINIsparkles
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I've been thinking about this a lot recently because my girlfriend, very religious, refuses to have sex with me. She's a great girl and I do care about her, but our needs in the relationship are really different from each other's. I've been with her for almost a year now and I haven't waited this long to do it with a person. I feel almost unfulfilled despite everything and it's not fair for her or for me.

So would you break up with someone just because they wouldn't have sex with you? And say WHY.


12:59 pm on July 5, 2008
tearsinheaven


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no. i'm a virgin you see, so i can do without sex. but i do think sexual activity is really important in a relationship, and i'd have a hard time without that.

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Yes.

Because the relationship isn't what I want it to be.

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Is she waiting for marriage? If so, do it.

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Permious


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OP if you want sex so bad there's like 6 and a half billion other people on the planet. She doesn't neeed to know....

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BabiGurlForevva


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my ex did. he cheated on me. NEVER EVER EVER EVER do that to her. she will never forgive you. i know...its happened to meh

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no, im a virgin

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No, sex can wiat

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if they have a real reason, no. you knew when you started out with her that this could be an issue, you put yourself there. if you respect her enough then you understand her. you never know, she might change her mind

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Beautiiful Tragedy55


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didnt u say she was vfery religious? then she cant even if she wanted 2 .. u just gotta except it and probably wait till u guys r married or something

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No, unless they didn't want to because they thought I was ugly or something all of a sudden. I'm not that superficial.

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no i wouldnt coz there has to be a reason for it like you say she is religious so it may mean that she wont have sex before marrige but if you like her or even love her you will wait till she is ready for you

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Eventually. Sex is a big part of any lasting relationship. I, personally, am not going to be in a relationship where the person refuses to have sex, for any reason. I'm sorry, but I'm not going to respect that.

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I wouldn't go out with a person who wouldn't have sex before marriage, and I would know this beforehand because it's something necessary for me to talk about before going steady or whatever people call it.

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No. While I am not a virgin, I believe that if you truly care about someone and are willing to stay with them, you should respect their wishes, even if you do not agree with them. Besides, sex is not the most important part in a relationship. It's a great part, but originally your relationship with a person is based on compatibility. Communication and intimacy (and no not just sexual intimacy) are the most important factors in a relationship. Without that its just sex.



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