Its not that I never had one, oh I had alot, but It's only when I "tight" my legs up and sort of "straighten" my body, like..become really tense.
I feel that when I'm gonna have sex for the first time, I won't get an orgasm because people tell you to RELAX durning sex and what not.

How do I solve this? I just CANT relax. Its like rubbing your cheek. No pleassure.
I NEED to tend my body to get the orgasm T_T a little embarresing. I can't stand up while playing, either. -need- to be on a bed etc. Laying down

Ok, so for those that have the same problem, how is sex  for you? can you get an orgasm?
if you can, then it'll be great to know, as im worried.

thanks <3.
Freshia ~