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Here is the deal, with all the controversy over J.L. Spears and Bristol Palin, I have decided that when I have kids, I am just going to but them condoms and the pill if i have a girl. Teens will have sex anyways and it will be hypocritical of what i have done if i am opposed to them having sex. Therefore, I will tell them I allow them to have sex, but with protection.
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3:42 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 | Joined May 2008 | 106 Days Active
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A Milli
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Don't worry, I use condoms ;)
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DJ SAMU3LZ
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Im Sure They Will Be Thrilled Youve Allowed Them To
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jsgirl
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Uh.
I would never take that approach with my child.
If I found out my teen child was having sex I would be so upset with myself.
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colapopx17
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go you! i think that its really cool for parents to not make their teenage kids go through that abstinence bullshit.
unfortunatly, my parents arent like that -_-
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Fire37
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That's much better than my chastity belt idea for my kids.
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im against it
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jsgirl
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Quote: from BlueAutomatic at 3:49 pm on Sep. 7, 2008
 Quote: from jsgirl at 11:44 pm on Sep. 7, 2008
Uh.
I would never take that approach with my child.
If I found out my teen child was having sex I would be so upset with myself. 
Why? What the fuck are you, a mormon? Would you rather your child was informed and having sex within your consent, therefore minimalising the risks of STIs and pregnancy because they understand what to do and what not to do, and aren't scared to come to you if they do have a sex related problem opposed to a child who does everything in secret, isn't as informed as they could be and gets an STI or pregnant but feel they can't come to you for advice? I know which one I'd prefer...
I never said that I didn't want my child to be informed about sexual risks.
All I said was that I would be upset if my teen child was having sex, and that no, I would not supply my child with condoms or BC. Because I wouldn't want them to have sex.
However, If my child did have a sex related question, I would not hesitate to get them the information they need.
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Quote: from jsgirl at 6:54 pm on Sep. 7, 2008
Quote: from BlueAutomatic at 3:49 pm on Sep. 7, 2008
Quote: from jsgirl at 11:44 pm on Sep. 7, 2008
Uh.
I would never take that approach with my child.
If I found out my teen child was having sex I would be so upset with myself.
Why? What the fuck are you, a mormon? Would you rather your child was informed and having sex within your consent, therefore minimalising the risks of STIs and pregnancy because they understand what to do and what not to do, and aren't scared to come to you if they do have a sex related problem opposed to a child who does everything in secret, isn't as informed as they could be and gets an STI or pregnant but feel they can't come to you for advice? I know which one I'd prefer...
I never said that I didn't want my child to be informed about sexual risks.
All I said was that I would be upset if my teen child was having sex, and that no, I would not supply my child with condoms or BC. Because I wouldn't want them to have sex.
However, If my child did have a sex related question, I would not hesitate to get them the information they need.
I'm a teen so this is first hand info. No matter what, you WILL NOT stop a teen from having sex. The only thing I see that stops teens from having sex is if they are very religious and firmly believe sex is for marriage. If thats the case then obviously don't allow them, but if that isn't the case, it'd be much easier for you and the kid if it was allowed. If you know your kid is sexually active and the kid knows that too, then your kid won't be AFRAID to ask you any questions. Whereas if it was secretly done, many questions will be UNANSWERED, even if they are very serious. This doesn't go for just myself, but for most teens.
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Lillylove
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If I had my rathers I'd prefer my teenager waited until 18 or so. But I also know that this just isn't going to happen. I'd put my girl on bc and tell her to use condoms and to carry her own. My sons I'd have some older girl show him all about it and be sure he used condoms. My main concern is the tacky places teens have to go to have sex. So I think I'll just have to invite them to stay home and make sex clean and meaningful, not a dirty sneaky thing. He can suggest she go to Planned Parenthood for her bcp.
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well at least ur dealing with reality instead of saying "my kids r never gonna have sex"
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