this guy... we dont normally talk. sometime when i walk into the room later he will watch me the whole time until i sit down and look up then he looks somewhere else... i cant concentrate becasue i like him so much. . I cant get him to notice me any other way.. but he a quiet one and hardly talks but when he does its cute...

what do i do to make myself look interested but not too outgoing we are both shy towards people we like.... havnt seen him date someone in the 3 years i knew him so i dont know what kinda girls he is into...... HELP

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start throwing paper at him

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first of all.. i will be too shy to do that to someone who is too shy to talk to me....

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even if u are shy, you need to kind of put yourself out there. Just try to talk to him about the class you share, the students, whatever. make a conversation possible.

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I have thought about it.... i am just soo shy........ i  really want him....... i just dont know how...blah i hate it i stare at him all the time too........ omg

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    So, with that in mind, muster up what courage you have and just talk to him- talk about anything, crack a corny joke and see if he laughs, and see how engaged he becomes in the conversation.

    After you've established that he is at least enjoying your company, if hes too shy to do so himself, why don't you ask if he'd be interested in grabbing a cup of coffee? (or the like?)

    He'll most likely say yes and you can take it from there. But just remember this- it does not do well to dwell on matters like this. The time to act is now, not later.  

    Best of luck,
    -Gutz

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Be realistic here- The guy is obviously shy, and you being shy isn't going to make matters any better (not trying to be mean at all, just straight-forward).

  So, with that in mind, muster up what courage you have and just talk to him- talk about anything, crack a corny joke and see if he laughs, and see how engaged he becomes in the conversation.

  After you've established that he is at least enjoying your company, if hes too shy to do so himself, why don't you ask if he'd be interested in grabbing a cup of coffee? (or the like?)

  He'll most likely say yes and you can take it from there. But just remember this- it does not do well to dwell on matters like this. The time to act is now, not later.  

  Best of luck,
  -Gutz

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thank you soo much!!!!!! i still dotn know how.. i am goign to try tomarrow in class.. hope fullly we will see what happens.... thank you again!

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Glad I could be of help! If you wanna talk further, feel free to PM me. Keep us posted!

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okay so i cleared my inbox so to the guy i was talking to yesterday.... i am sorry but if you get this on here..... pm me!!!!!!!!!!!

okay so today.... not much time to talk in class and he had to leave about 10 minutes early so i couldnt talk to him in class.. he gets to class before me and so during class we watched a movie..... titanic..... so during that i couldnt talk to him.... i was 3 seats away.. but the girl behind me was making  funny jokes about the movie and made me laugh and he turned around and laughed a bit too... and gah!!! I DIDNT SAY ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am so stupid...... i wish i could just be like hey... hows it going???? but i cant ecevn do that.. but tomarrow..... i am sooo goign to  talk to him.... i am going to have to.... okay i will let ya know!!!!! thanks again guys!!!

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