i just really don't get on with my best friends boyfriend, its nothing he's done, our personality's just clash. but i can never see her without seeing him so we have to get along. any tips on how to be friends with someone who does lodes of little things that bug you?
please don't give me any of that "you don't need to be his friend" or " just hang out with her and not him" stuff because I'm not going to do that, i want to get along with him because he's important to her.
(anon because they come on livewire too)
9:57 am on Sep. 7, 2008
byebyebeautyful
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ok well then, thats easy, you just have get along with him. ignore what ticks you off and pay attention to the things he has similar with you
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soccerchik107
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Well, just try to get over the things he does to bug you. Find a couple things you guys have in common and work from there.
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Silver Shinigami
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try and find common ground. See if you have anything in common.
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Have a talk with him about why you guys don't get along. Once you see the issues from both sides, you can work together on putting them behind you and becoming friends.
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REDHOTCHEERIOS
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I would just ignore the stupid shit that he does...i had that same prob...and u should talk to her about not hanging out with him so much because if she does that u two may not be friends for long..from my experience but...we are different but i would just ignore the stupid shit or get someone else to hang with u guys...
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xoaliceinwonderlandx
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aaah same. I had this sitaution before. We would fight and scream at eachother all the time. Then during a party, he randomly kicked me out of his house for talking to his friend. (No other reason, mind you). I hated him. He hated me. Yet, my best friend chose him over me. Hence why we're not best friends today.
Then, he cheated on her. Fucked another girl. And shes still with him .
Shes a douche bag. He's a douche bag. They deserve eachother.
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You can get along with him without having to be his friend.
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