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Have I let my little bro down?
Replies: 17Last Post Sep. 7 10:55am by Miss Prophetess
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See he has just got his first girlfriend and she is just...well not very good looking.   I think he can do so much better and I feel that he is only with her because he has low self-esteem. I have told him that I am disappointed with him but mostly I feel that I have let him down. We don't have a dad and I think it should have been my job to teach him that he should always go for the best and not settle for average or less than average girls (and not just girls but other things too).  

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if  he likes her..... does it matter?

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His opinion is different from your opinion. So what if the girl isn't good looking? Even though you're only doing your best for him, you need to let him make some of his own decisions.

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i think you should let him choose his own girlfriend

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Just because she's not good looking,(to you) maybe she actually makes your brother happy.

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How shallow are you?
He might like her for her personality?
Gtfo.

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personal preference.

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Ask him why he's with her he might just really like her. IF he has self-esteem issues you made it worse by saying you didn't approve of his choice of girlfriends.

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he'll learn

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well its his first gf, i think to him whats more important is that he finally got one, after a while, hell get pickier haha

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She might be an awesome girl!? Maybe your little bro isn't as shallow as you seemingly are, in that sense, you haven't let him down.

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leave him the fuck alone. if he likes her who gives a fuck if she's the ugliest girl in the world, if he likes her and finds her attractive nothing else matters. you've let him down by not accepting her.

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People learn from their mistakes, not always from a more experienced person.

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Maybe you should let him choose his own girlfriend?  
Hello!  Wake up!  Your brother is not you.  He will not have to same interests as you, nor will he be attracted to the same thing you are.

Leave him alone.
You let him down when you told him he could do better for a girlfriend.  

And it's not only about looks - what about personality?

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You sound very shallow.

1). It is his girlfriend, not yours.
2). He likes her, who cares what you think.
3). Don't get involved in your brother's love life for something so petty.
4). Learn to realize looks aren't everything, she might have a wonderful personalty.

I know I would be extremely mad at you if you were my sibling and you told me that. And you probably have let your brother down; it would have let me down. Good job.

Post edited at 10:06 am on Sep. 7, 2008 by PineappleKiss


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