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Ever had a girl that simply adores you?
Replies: 9Last Post Sep. 6 5:59pm by toofly
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This girl and I went on a couple dates but then she went away to college. She doesn't like it there, saying one of her reasons why, is that she is too far away from me.

I mean she always says I'm the hottest guy ever, and that she'll do anything to be with me.

The thing, I dont find her that attractive. But then on the flip side I have never had a girl like me this much, especially now when I"m hardly to talking to many people because i'm focusing on school and college.

And the thing is she keeps saying like I can't wait until we date and she has all these plans for us and simply I"m not sure if I want that or I'm ready. Maybe I should stop being a whimp and just go with it.

I mean she always says like "ooh you can do whatever you want" "i'm not that prude girl I was in high school"

I don't know what to do other than to keep it going.

any advice? I want to be with her because she makes me happy, yet I'm not really seeing a future with her.

I guess I'll wait until she moves back and see how things go, but I haven't seen her in awhile, so for her to say those things over the phone kind of makes me feel weird, because it didn't happen while she was living out here, yet now that she moves she all of a sudden wants to be with me 24/7. She even told her parents about me, and what not.  


5:47 pm on Sep. 6, 2008
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Hell no.  I'm WAY too irresistible.

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me too

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Oops.  Thought you said IGNORES you.  lmao!

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yeah..... but its always the weird creepy ones for me..

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Yes  i have, they can also be stalkers.



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nope

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Quote: from latin muscle at 5:51 pm on Sep. 6, 2008

Yes i have, they can also be stalkers.


It's weird because like I want to be with her and i don't.
She's really cool I guess but I dont think she's that attractive. But I'm starting to get older and realize that I should get over that phase because I haven't had a gf in awhile.


5:52 pm on Sep. 6, 2008
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You say you're not that attracted to her, but you want to be with her because she makes you happy...yet you don't see a future with her even though she makes you happy.

Could it be that your lack of physical attraction to her is what makes you not see a future with her?  You know you could get some hot, drop-dead gorgeous chick due to your own looks and whatever else you bring to the table, so you feel you could do better?  It depends on what's important to you.  Are looks that important to you that you would give up a girl that makes you happy because you would rather have a MORE ATTRACTIVE version of her?

Maybe she's trying hard to keep you because she knows she can't do better than you "looks wise" and while you like her and she flatters you, you know that you CAN do better looks wise.  I'd like to hear your thoughts on that.


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Many of the less attractive women have a higher level of character and integrity and are more wife material.  While many of the gorgeous women end up being superficial cunts that want a man that has money and thinks the world should bow down to them because they are attractive.  

The question is, do you want something REAL or do you want a trophy ass plasic bimbo bitch that will make you miserable in the end.  


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