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Replies: 7 — Last Post Oct. 8 12:17am by medjai

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Please... I really need some help
Guys, I found out that one of my girl (friends) has been getting abused physically and verbally. I've been doing a social psych assignment about it, and i've learned SO Much about it, and she seriously falls into EVERY single thing i've found about it, from her lack of self esteem, to her inability to make basic daily decisions. Also, how she feels that she deserves no better than her ASSHOLE of an ex that i would love nothing more than to rip his head off...

What i need help with...
How can I bring this up to her... I really want to help her so bad, but I don't know how to talk to her about it.... PLease give me some advice

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I'm a bit confused. She has told you she was abused physically and verbally, and then you see that she falls into specific categories? Or you've noticed that she falls into these categories, so you ASSUME that she must be physically and verbally abused...?

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brickster2008

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Wow...that is a hard one....Maybe sit her down with all of your facts and tell her how much you care about her. Sorry I don't really know what else to say mate.

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have a guidance consular with u when u talk too her tell her u extremely worried she might get hurt really bad

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Just because she falls into these categories doesn't mean she is, so don't assume it.

I would just be up front with her about it though. Tell her the things you have noticed.

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talk to her about it

medjai

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So you're assuming she's abused based on her psychology rather than on any hard evidence?

Does she fall into these categories:

1. She has bruises constantly.
2. She misses school regularly.
3. No guy's been to her house to meet the parents?

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medjai

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If she's not bruised and you haven't seen it you can't know that she's abused. You could be right but it's a pretty big assumption.

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