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I really want to do this for him..
Replies: 13Last Post Oct. 11 6:32am by Sergio1193
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I want to stop cutting, stop all self harm for him, because I know how much it hurts him to see it.

Guys, would...you, find your girlfriend terribly ugly if she had scars on her ribs, her hipbones, faded ones on her wrists, and some behind her knees? Or would you just hate them for what they represent?

I don't care about what happens to me, but I don't want him to be hurt anymore.

I need to quit, but I can't seem to. Even my psychiatrist says I should go on if it helps me...and it does...


6:03 am on Oct. 11, 2008
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Any person that doesn't accept you for who you are, doesn't deserve to know you.

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You want to quit and then don't want... make the choice. And please don't give me the addiction and withdrawal bull crap. I though I was a addicted to certain things when I noticed it's only a state of mind. If you want to stop, you will. You cannot die from depression or whatever is making you cut.

So choose. If you like the guy, then stop.

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I've seen it happen to my (at the time) best friend.

I never quite condoned it, but I kind of accepted it at the time as an unfortunate but better alternative to other means of coping.

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Quote: from Jadien at 9:04 am on Oct. 11, 2008

Any person that doesn't accept you for who you are, doesn't deserve to know you.

agreed


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If i was aguy I wouldn't look at her ugly, because I would love her, however Id do what i can to help her. Love can you message me why you started to doing that, so i can see if I can give you a better perspective of advice. If you really dont want to message me however, as much as i can say here is, Its not worth hurting yourself whatever your reasons. We all fight the world and we all fall into darkness but never should we be burred in it. Dont elt it take over you anymore.

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Quote: from Jadien at 4:04 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

Any person that doesn't accept you for who you are, doesn't deserve to know you.

Aww how cute. The world doesn't work that way. You can't push off everyone that doesn't accept you.

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Quote: from bg kNIFE at 3:05 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

You want to quit and then don't want... make the choice. And please don't give me the addiction and withdrawal bull crap. I though I was a addicted to certain things when I noticed it's only a state of mind. If you want to stop, you will. You cannot die from depression or whatever is making you cut.

Actually, I can die from my depression...it's called wanting to commit suicide. And the cutting is me avoiding it.


6:07 am on Oct. 11, 2008
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Quote: from Micus at 3:05 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

I've seen it happen to my (at the time) best friend.

I never quite condoned it, but I kind of accepted it at the time as an unfortunate but better alternative to other means of coping.


So, you just accepted, didn't push? Didn't ask for reason?


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Quote: from bg kNIFE at 9:06 am on Oct. 11, 2008

Quote: from Jadien at 4:04 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

Any person that doesn't accept you for who you are, doesn't deserve to know you.

Aww how cute. The world doesn't work that way. You can't push off everyone that doesn't accept you.

Uh, I'm pretty sure you can. I don't talk to nor surround myself with people who can't accept me. I can deal with people who can't accept me in a professional matter, such as at a working environment, but other than that.. I'm pretty sure I'm allowed to not associate with anyone I don't deem fit.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 9:07 am on Oct. 11, 2008

Quote: from Micus at 3:05 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

I've seen it happen to my (at the time) best friend.  

 I never quite condoned it, but I kind of accepted it at the time as an unfortunate but better alternative to other means of coping.


So, you just accepted, didn't push? Didn't ask for reason?


Of course I did.

But she came back with the "would you rather I __insert gruesome things__"

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Quote: from Anonymous at 4:07 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Actually, I can die from my depression...it's called wanting to commit suicide. And the cutting is me avoiding it.

That is suicide and it is not a solution. I was talking about a death where you die from the withdrawal. So you see, everything is a choice in the end.

If you don't want to change, don't. No one is here to argue with you if you already have a preset though in your head. It's up to you. You choose. :)


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I agree that acceptance is wonderful but maybe its not just nessicarily acceptance, but the health of yourself aswell. Dont just concider your man's opinion but something for yourself aswell.

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Quote: from LindaRains93 at 6:14 am on Oct. 11, 2008

I agree that acceptance is wonderful but maybe its not just nessicarily acceptance, but the health of yourself aswell. Dont just concider your man's opinion but something for yourself aswell.

true that

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