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I dont understand it, I'm hoping someone will
Replies: 8Last Post Oct. 11 6:01am by Catacomb
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Emo, Cutter, Whatever you want to call it, But thats me, but when I do, or get really frustrated and want to cut, I am usually thinking about how angry I am with someone else, But I guess I hurt myself because I dont want to hurt other people... I dont know because naturaly I'm pretty violent. So I guess I'm woundering why In my mind I have to take my anger at other people out on myself.

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its to get attention thats why

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Yeah, you do.

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Its Natural. I Hate The Stereotype :Cutter: Because Its Most Deff. True That Everyone Has Their Own Problems And Very Different Lives So Why Catagorize Them Under one Thing?

Thats What I Dont Get.

Anyway. Just Try To Get Help. Talk To People.
Thats What I Did.

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Maybe it's because you can't hurt them.

I don't actually know for sure.

But I've slppe myself round the face, flicked elasic bands on my wrist... stuff like that, when I'm feeling angry with someone and also fustrated because I can't take it out on them.

It has to come out somewhere.

I think this is one of the reasons people cut themselves.

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Quote: from Catacomb at 1:17 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

its to get attention thats why

I don't like they way you have stereotyped this problem, it's unfair to say everyone cuts because of attention.

Some people do if for different reasons because we all have our own way of dealing with a situation.

Something which I would like to mention to the OP is that possible try anger management because if you have obviously seen that something isn't quite right there then you need to get support to help you to deal with your anger in a more healthy way, without bringing harm upon yourself or others.

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Quote: from aksamirae at 8:16 am on Oct. 11, 2008

Emo, Cutter, Whatever you want to call it, But thats me, but when I do, or get really frustrated and want to cut, I am usually thinking about how angry I am with someone else, But I guess I hurt myself because I dont want to hurt other people... I dont know because naturaly I'm pretty violent. So I guess I'm woundering why In my mind I have to take my anger at other people out on myself.

I'm not going to pretend I understand what's going on in your head, but let me lend you some insight. You're most likely cutting yourself because you're the only person you can control. You can control your own hurt, your own feelings. Everything.

You can't control anyone else. You're taking out anger on yourself because you can't physically take it out on the person you're angry worth. Most times, when getting angry with someone, self mutilators "blame themselves" for the argument, and seek punishment. Cutting seems to be the only way they can deal with the stress of the argument, or whatever is bothering them.

This is a website I found to help you better understand why you do what you do.

Good luck.

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When im angry i have a hole in my backyard that i dig it works. or i go on a work it sohuld neevr for a eprson coem to slitting wrist arms face etc.

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Quote: from emma19911 at 3:22 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

Quote: from Catacomb at 1:17 pm on Oct. 11, 2008

its to get attention thats why

I don't like they way you have stereotyped this problem, it's unfair to say everyone cuts because of attention.

Some people do if for different reasons because we all have our own way of dealing with a situation.

Something which I would like to mention to the OP is that possible try anger management because if you have obviously seen that something isn't quite right there then you need to get support to help you to deal with your anger in a more healthy way, without bringing harm upon yourself or others.



its attention seeking no matter what reasons you might think you have for it
maybe you dont particularly want people's attention but if they find out about it there's no way they'll leave you alone

the whole point of doing it is to leave behind something someone can see
you can privately inflict pain on yourself without leaving behind clues about it but rarely do you see anyone doing that
because they want someone to see
duh

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