( Anonymous )
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for a good 2 1/2 years now, and before that we where best friends all the way through highschool, untill I became availible and we started to date in our senior year.
Recently things have been going from bad to worse with us, as we generaly dont see each other alot anymore because of Uni, which has almost made our relationship long-distance. we go out maybe twice a week and we only talk about 15 minutes average on the phone at night, which has been taking its tole on me when I know she spends most of her time talking on AIM or some other instant messenger to other people, and when I try to talk to her on messenger its two word responses like "ya ok". I have also been starting to suspect her of cheating, due to the fact she is ignoring me so much.
I just feel that our relationship has become too much of a pattern that we seem to follow every day, and its quite frustrating. we have had several arguements on the phone about this and it always ends with her saying she will "Try harder" and it seems it works for like a day and she starts in her ignoring moods again.
I just want to know why she is doing this and if there is anything that I can do to help our relationship before it falls through. I know this is a fourm generaly ruled by trolls, but I hope someone takes this topic seriously. Post edited at 7:01 pm on Oct. 13, 2008 by Anonymous
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youSPUNKYnub
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maybe you two should end things. at least for a while. it sounds like the relationship has gotten too boring to enjoy.
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( Anonymous )
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we have talked about that, but we both feel too attached to each other... and it is really starting to wear us both down.
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Tarhanosaurus Sexx
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Maybe take a break?
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energizerbunny
Executive
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well if you've actually really talked about it and laid your feelings on the table to her and she still acts like that than you may have a problem. if you dont want to lose her tell her that you dont but its just been hard and you feel disconnected. dont accuse her of cheating unless you have hard evidence
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adovnikk
Advisor
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well take a week and talk to eachother to see what the problem is. If you guys start to aruge then you need to take a deep breath and talk clamer and she will too. Try to work it out. If it does not work out the take a brake from eachother for awhile. Then come back to it in about a week or two.
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( Anonymous )
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I havnt accused her for cheating, I just have this feeling. and when I get angry about what she is doing she gets all sad like she did nothing wrong. I don't know if I am doing something wrong or what.
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GongShow
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Its over. LOL
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babygirl4492
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um...i have dealt with this kind of stuff before with my ex-boyfriend, and i would say probably let her go. But yet again its just an opinon. 
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lostrealist
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well, i do ignore my bf sometimes when we're arguing. But I find myself lucky because eventhough I ignored him that much, when I get mad, he would still try to make it up to me.
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love hurts but sometimes it's a good hurt.
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